What it can look like

- Rewriting an email five times before you send it
- Feeling that rest has to be earned
- Putting off work in case it is not good enough
- Sunday evening dread that starts by Sunday noon
How we work on it

We look at where the standards came from and what they protect you from. Then we try small experiments, such as sending the email after one read, and notice what happens. The aim is standards you choose on purpose.
Questions about perfectionism and burnout
Do I have to change jobs?
No. Most clients stay in the same job. We work on what you can change in how you work, and if a job change comes up, the decision is yours.
Written and reviewed by Maren Ostrowe, LMHC, October 7, 2026
